This is an article on the types of women that men avoid. Kinda funny but also true in general.
Click here
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Looking Back on Divorce
This is a very interesting article on one woman's perspective on her own divorce and the dynamics that influenced her (and maybe all of us in her cohort).
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http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303544604576430341393583056.html?mod=googlenews_wsj
We have a reluctant link so please copy and paste this address in your address bar.
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303544604576430341393583056.html?mod=googlenews_wsj
Friday, July 1, 2011
Shyness: good or bad? Neither!
This is a great NYT article on shyness. It applies to many of us! Find your best fit in the world.
Understand and Live well!
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/26/opinion/sunday/26shyness.htmlhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif
Understand and Live well!
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/26/opinion/sunday/26shyness.htmlhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif
Saturday, June 25, 2011
New and Improved!
We will soon be making more options available to our readers that we hope you will like. More info and products and services are on the way!
Check back to see these as they are added over the next months.
Thanks for continuing to come back to Insightfullife!
Live well. Now!
Check back to see these as they are added over the next months.
Thanks for continuing to come back to Insightfullife!
Live well. Now!
More Changes Coming!
A lucky few love it, but many of us dread change.
Especially if we have been working to stabilize our lives and better our lot, change can sometimes be seen as disruptive. And it is.
That doesn't have to be negative. We can develop an outlook that includes change as an experience that leads to our own growth and hopefully even leads to an increase in our happiness.
Use your best efforts to relax and cope with the change. Evaluate the results of the changes and readjust your efforts to meet the challenge.
If you discover you are on the wrong track, pick a new direction.
When you need help, use your network and skills and beyond that look for professional assistance too.
You can do it and you deserve to have the life you want.
Live well. Now
Especially if we have been working to stabilize our lives and better our lot, change can sometimes be seen as disruptive. And it is.
That doesn't have to be negative. We can develop an outlook that includes change as an experience that leads to our own growth and hopefully even leads to an increase in our happiness.
Use your best efforts to relax and cope with the change. Evaluate the results of the changes and readjust your efforts to meet the challenge.
If you discover you are on the wrong track, pick a new direction.
When you need help, use your network and skills and beyond that look for professional assistance too.
You can do it and you deserve to have the life you want.
Live well. Now
Friday, May 6, 2011
The Time is Always Now
It can very difficult to know when to implement life changes that we hope will improve our lot. "Don't wait too long" was the advice given to me years ago by the wise nursing home resident; it will always be true.
Timing is important. Plan well and carefully. Line up as much as possible before extending yourself too far. When the time is right, move forward.
All easier said than done but do-able. The right time to begin is always right Now.
Live well, now.
Timing is important. Plan well and carefully. Line up as much as possible before extending yourself too far. When the time is right, move forward.
All easier said than done but do-able. The right time to begin is always right Now.
Live well, now.
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Dealing with the Nay Sayers
Sooner or later we will all run into someone who wants to be a negative force in our lives. This is all the more disturbing if it turns out to be a family member or friend. Those entrenched and bitter people who are influential in forming opinions about others can be especially troubling.
Our first instinct might be to deny the situation, unfairness, or allegations, as being too unworthy of our attention. All we can do is express a desire to resolve the conflict if that is an option, and beyond that, let the chips fall and recover ourselves before being dragged down by the other's negativity.
The truth is that often we need, or wish we had, someone to help us sort out issues that restrain us. Use the support you have and beyond that, find a counselor who can work with you the way you best understand.
Coping with other's negativity can be a major distraction from our own life priorities. At some point, we have to disengage from those who would prefer to keep the drama going. Avoid those who are obviously troubling and quickly get out of situations where you have to deal with them.
Take care and Live Well.
Our first instinct might be to deny the situation, unfairness, or allegations, as being too unworthy of our attention. All we can do is express a desire to resolve the conflict if that is an option, and beyond that, let the chips fall and recover ourselves before being dragged down by the other's negativity.
The truth is that often we need, or wish we had, someone to help us sort out issues that restrain us. Use the support you have and beyond that, find a counselor who can work with you the way you best understand.
Coping with other's negativity can be a major distraction from our own life priorities. At some point, we have to disengage from those who would prefer to keep the drama going. Avoid those who are obviously troubling and quickly get out of situations where you have to deal with them.
Take care and Live Well.
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